~Blog Post Title: Change (Facts and Basically Marketing)
It is one of the latest trend, CHANGE.
Everyone of us wants to improve and have the life that we want. And for that change is required.
However! However, we can only change how we can live our life. Changing who we are is impossible. It’s a big lie that a lot of life improvement coaches and even some big religions tell.
“I am not a same person as I used to be when I was dating my ex.”
A popular quote among the teenagers and adults.
Actually, what they are telling is, it’s not that they’ve changed but how they look towards the life or this whole “relationship” thing has changed. They are the same old person.
Life is simple.
What makes you believe that our life is simple?
The answer is, a lot of reasons.
We only need to change how we see our life, how we look towards the problems we are facing, how we protect ourselves from outer noises and our attitude towards the hard work.
A. Hard Work
I know, it’s a scary sets of words. Hard work is painful. Honestly, it takes a lot of time and effort than our standard comfort zone wants.
So, we all believe it. And that’s bullshit.
Hard work is not whatever we’ve been told. Actually, you know what; it’s not the right order. If you don’t think you’re making your own choices. Hard work is not something you should be thinking about. So, let’s take you on a tour to the other part.
Hmm.. Now that’s where we should have started. Are you doing what you want to or are you doing it because of other people’s pressure?
Your choice matters. Remember, your choices matters a lot. If you think, where you are is not what you ever wanted. Let’s move on to the point C.
C. Fancy Label(Basically marketing)
Here we are, 2017 and some of us still think that the earth is flat. Why? There are these “fancy label” God/Father/Holy ghost/Troll.
Religion is just an ancient networking business. We, third world citizens with non-christianity history know this better than anybody else.
But, how is this related to the choices we make?
Well, we are just an evolved bees that get attracted by some evolved/evil flowers.
We get attracted by something fancy and at the same time something not ourselves.
Like; Leaders, billionaires, gurus, superstars and what not.
Maybe, deep down what we wanted was a peaceful and happy life. Maybe all you wanted to do was live a life of a small business owner. Maybe you wanted to become a good person and not a know it all guru.
So, when we aim towards something that we never wanted. We became a slave bees of that queen bee. And you end up funding those creators of fancy labels while your dreams are dying in the deserted part of yourself.
D.Attitude towards our problems.
Now, if our choices are wrong then that’s the problem. And we should categorize them like those dustbins on the park. Plastics goes to a dustbin with plastics lebled on it and paper goes to the one with paper labeled on it.
Likewise, carelessly self created problems must be labeled as bad problems. Whereas, problems created by the external factors like, natural disaster, unfortunate events, negative changes on economy etc. must be labeled as worst problems.
If it’s the worst problem, I wish you the best may follow it.
If it’s a bad problem, change your habits. Change how you are living.
No, no, no.
Don’t panic and approach carelessly.
It’s best not to make things worse than it is.
First, go to point C.
- Know yourself. Understand what you want. It’s your choice and if you want to change, nobody’s going to help you. You need to do it yourself. It’s extremely dangerous to ask for help in this situation. Have people who will support you. That’s it.
- Plan. Plan how you’re going to start changing your life. And stick to it.
- (Talking about stick to it. It’s hard work time.) Hard work is not just a brute force and a shot in the dark. It’s a work done after planning and doing it again and again with improved plannings. Something called, “Work smart not hard.” is a load of crap created by people who thought hard work was just a meaning less effort. Again, basically marketing.
- After hard work comes, staying grounded and giving support to those who needs. And it’s free to make mistakes but don’t be too careless.
Be brave and be great. Don’t be brave and be stupid.
Change (Facts and Basically Marketing)
- Life is simple.
- Forget the fancy labels.
- Sort out the problems.
- Plan and stick to it.
- Improve the plans.
- Stay grounded and provide the support to others.
Listen, internet these days is a big fat lie and we should be more careful about those fancy marketing schemes than the viruses, spyware and threats.
I mean all they say is, “you are wrong!” “You are wrong!” And again, “you are wrong!” And in the end they say follow your inner self. They’re just trying to fool us.
Let’s not get fooled.
Thank you very much if you’ve read this all and like if you think this post was good and have your say on this post at the comment below. I hope to write more and post sooner than I’ve been posting these day. Till then this paper will stay blank white and my notepads will look dirty. Thank you everyone!